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Why Every Mother Should Never Forget to Take Care of Herself


When we have kids, our priorities change, especially during the first few years. We are aware that our kids depend on us for everything and in the process of raising them, at times, we tend to lose perspective of ourselves, and go into full mommy mode, leaving the woman part behind. And this is not a good thing, it can take a toll on our self-esteem and even our marriage, so finding that balance between being a woman and a mother is key to being good at both and feeling empowered to achieve anything we set our minds to.

Now we know that the time you have for yourself is limited, but there are some great ways you can take care of yourself, indulge a little, and still be a great mom in the process. Now let’s see what they are.

1. Steal a Few Moments for Yourself

Early in the morning or after you’ve put the kids to bed, these are the moments you should take for yourself. Take a nice bath, have your partner keep watch and jump in if the kids get restless. Pamper yourself a bit, some nice 100% natural lavender oil, a glass of organic wine and a good book, that hour or so can do wonders for both mind and body, and trust us, the house won’t burn down while you are in there. You deserve a breather. You can even go as far as putting on a mask or two and providing your face with a much-needed nourishment. A bit of pampering can do wonders for your mood and health.

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2. Take Some Shortcuts

When it comes to putting on makeup, we know that at times it might seem a drag, but you deserve it. Looking good is about you, not others, some foundation and a few strokes of mascara will do you world of good, and they will help you feel like yourself and not just like a mommy with a pale face and circles under her eyes. And if you want to save time, do as Australian moms do, get some quality lashes in Sydney, and you will cut down on prep time and look great every time you step out. Also get your manicure and pedicure done every couple of weeks, that will be one less thing to think about and you’ll look good and feel all done up regardless of the mommy schedule and time restrictions.

3. Put the Guilt on the Back Burner

This is probably the hardest part, especially for young moms. Taking time for yourself, you feel like you are depriving your child of your attention. But if you are exhausted and feeling down, not to mention if your self-esteem has dropped, you won’t be able to give your child the best of you. This is why you shouldn’t feel guilty if you take the time for yourself, whether it is to do your beauty routine or simply take a breather if you are at your best your child will get the parent they deserve. And you would be teaching them an important life lesson and that is to value themselves and take care of both their mind and body.

4. Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

This might be the most valuable lesson new moms can learn, and that is you are in charge of your parenting style and no child is alike, same as no mother is. And if something works for other moms, it doesn’t mean it will work for you. Comparing your daily routine to that of others can only stress you out and make you feel like you are doing something wrong. And if you try to match them you might drain yourself or get lost in the process. You know best what your child needs and what type of schedule works for your family, and as long as your children your partner and you are content that is all that matters.

There you have it, taking care of yourself is an essential part of being a good mother and a good parent and partner. Just because you now have this precious bundle of joy to occupy your life it doesn’t mean you should lose track of who you are and what your needs are. The way you treat yourself is what you will transfer on to your child, so make sure they see a strong, confident woman who feels good about herself and where she is in life.

Audrey Taylor
Audrey Taylor was born in San Francisco, and moved to Adelaide at the age of five. Marketer researcher and social media manager on hold, full - time mommy of a cheerful two-year-old. Graduated from Queensford college, worked in a couple of marketing agencies across Australia, eager to learn more about business and share her experiences. Traveled across the Europe. Her hobbies include: home decor, fashion, travel, music, old movies.

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