Often, we find men around us, who claim to love us. But, when it comes to reality, we find them failing miserably. The words they say have no relation with the actions they perform practically. Just by saying “I love you” doesn’t mean he really loves you. So, girls be aware of falling prey to such men, who are simply hypocrites with no sense of love, responsibility and care for you. If you’ve fallen prey to them, don’t hesitate to say “Thank You” to them. Thank you because they help you to understand hypocrisy properly. Don’t get carried away by their meaningless words. Here are some signs that will help you to understand whether your man truly loves you. Have a look.
1. “I” Replaced with “We” and “Your” Replaced with “Our”
The first sign that your man truly loves you is that he includes you in his life happily. He thinks about both of you together and not just himself alone. The way he communicates will help you to understand about his feelings and intentions. You’re always in his mind. “I” no longer exists in his vocabulary. “I” gets replaced with “We” and “Your” gets replaced with “Our”. If it doesn’t happen, then you’re with the wrong man.
2. He Takes Care of the Little Things
Just observe if he takes care of the little things around you. Like putting your cell phone in charge when it runs out of battery. Or, keeping a bottle of water near you when you fall asleep. Or, bringing you your favorite items without being asked for. Or, booking tickets of the events you like the most. It may happen that he fails to fix everything that happens, but what is important is at the end of the day, he takes good care of your needs, your desires, your expectations and you, yourself without being asked for.
3. He Lets You Be Who You’re
If your man truly loves you, he isn’t embarrassed with you and your actions. Instead, he would love you the way you’re. He would love your weaknesses and your strengths as well. Also, he would always try to cover up your weakness in front of his family, his friends and society, if it comes out. He would never complain and instead appreciate you unconditionally. Instead, if you find, he’s complaining about you or discussing about you with his family and friends, especially about your weaknesses, be sure, he doesn’t love you at all.
4. He Treats You with Respect
When a man falls in love with a woman, he treats her with full respect. This is a man’s basic instinct. No matter what happens, he will never let his woman fall down in front of anybody, be his parents, relatives, friends or public. He respects her feelings. He respects her decisions. He fights. He apologizes. Whatever happens, he maintains privacy. He always complements his girl’s character, provides heed to her minute details, values her opinions and loves her unconditionally. He neither tries to force anything nor tries to mold her in any way. He simply respects her.
5. He Touches You in Public
Most men always wish to touch their women in private. But, if your man puts his arms around you in public or hugs you affectionately in front of everybody, then your man truly loves you. This portrays that he doesn’t love you only for physical pleasure or fun. He loves you from the core of his heart. He loves your individuality. Another wonderful gesture is cuddling without the expectation of sex. The guy must know that romance is not only sexual involvement. It’s all about looking at each other’s eyes, holding hands, hugging and appreciating her individuality.
You’re really lucky if you’ve got these qualities in your man. Never hurt him. If not, don’t hesitate to walk back. Just remember that Love simply happens. It doesn’t need time. And, the one that happens with time is just compromise and adjustment. Either lead your life happily with the man, who truly loves you. Or kick the man out from your life, who’s just trying to use you. Don’t let a person spoil your life.